The only thing crueler than tearing children from
their parents is falsely leading children to believe that they are
unloved by their fathers. - Dr. Stephen
Baskerville
Buying (Anti) Family
Law - A Booming Business in America!! The Cost is
ONLY our Nation!!
By glenn Eckles
In Divorce proceedings involving children in the
United States, law abiding and wholly fit-to-parent
Fathers are relegated to little more than "visitor"
in 85% of those proceedings. This "marginalization"
of the critical role
of the Father has removed a critical developmental
influence from the lives of our children -- the
negative impact upon the societal landscape of the
United States is readily apparent to anyone that
cares to open their eyes and honestly survey that
landscape.
There are presently an estimated 40-Million American children that
have had their law abiding and wholly fit-to-parent Father (currently
25-Million) forcibly ripped from the lives as a "natural" extension of
divorce. This is being done by the States largely as a result of Title
42, subsection 666, and other Anti-Child/Anti-Family programs which
provide multi-millions of dollars in Federal grants to each of the
states. To obtain these lucrative funds, the States simply need to
implement Anti-Family Laws that "create noncustodial
parents."
The States have all been exceedingly successful in the implementation
of such
Anti-Child/Anti-Family laws, AND in making the very most of these
lucrative funding sources.
During an era in which the States are experiencing record deficits
and declining "legally obtained tax revenues" - how better to increase
the dollars in the State's coffers, then to manipulate the child custody
laws - arbitrarily classifying and discriminating against law abiding
Fathers - and thereby "increasing the volume of child support orders
that must be enforced AND increasing the level of Federal taxpayer
dollars that are provided to the States for that very enforcement!
But wait! There is yet more Money to Follow! Without question, it can
be accurately stated that the "first allegiance" of
the vast majority of the honorable Lawyer-Legislators at the Federal and
State levels, is to the American Bar Association and the Divorce
Industry, rather than "We the People."
This "allegiance" has been made increasingly obvious over the course
of the last 35-years of "Failed Social Experimentation in human souls"
as the Federal and State Lawyer-Legislators have implemented
increasingly anti-child and anti-family laws that can only "serve" the
interests of the Secular, Feminist, Lawyer and Medical lobbies of the
TRILLION Dollar per year Divorce Industry - at the expense of our
Nation's children.
Campaign contributions drive all legislation, and the Divorce
Industry has certainly "taken good care of their friends" within the
Federal and State Legislatures that continue to implement laws at are
"Industry Friendly."
So extreme is the absolute greed of the Divorce Industry lobbies -
and that of the Lawyer-Legislators at the State and Federal levels -
that they are more than willing to sacrifice this Nation's children,
families and society
in an effort to secure their fortunes, and their next advancement in
elected-office!
That this amassing of wealth and position are being done at the
expense of our children, families and Our Nation - and with the willing
assistance of our Nation's Leadership - is not only reprehensible, but
in my opinion
represents a blatant Crime Against Humanity!
A more vicious circle of corruption, and a better example of
"Collusion, Conspiracy and Racketeering," I frankly cannot imagine.
First implemented in California in 1969, No-Fault Divorce has since
spread like a contagious disease. The Lawyer-Legislators within the
Federal and State legislatures have used No-Fault Divorce as a
spring-board for the implementation of a plethora of additional
Anti-child, Anti-Family and Gender-Discriminatory laws that can only
serve to fuel the lucrative incomes of their Lawyer-Friends and destroy
the American Family.
The Family is the very foundation of any stable and secure society.
In the United States, that foundation is being increasingly undermined
and destabilized as the Family is utterly destroyed, and Fathers are
systematically
being ripped from the lives of their children and relegated to visitors.
Visitors are not in a position to impart core-values to their
children. The children are then required to acquire their values on the
streets of life -- a street where differing values of "good" can cost
that child his/her
very life -- conformance to the street then becomes a de facto necessity
for life.
Visitors are not afforded the luxury of sufficient time to
effectively mentor their children. The children instead emulate the thug
on the street who has accumulated fancy clothes, jewelry, cars and drugs
through illegal activities.
Our children view these things as the "mark of success" and align their
behaviors with the thug so as to gain the same material things in life.
Visitors do not have the opportunity to adequately serve as spiritual
leader to their children -- do we need to dig any deeper to determine
the root cause of the decline in American morality?
Visitors do not have the opportunity to present a positive role model
for their children that the children will then grow to emulate. The
children instead begin to emulate the behaviors they view on television
and on the local street corners.
Visitors are not in a position to implant the concepts of Right OR
Wrong, Discipline, OR Self-control. The children instead learn
antisocial behaviors from their equally disturbed and as equally angry
peers.
Visitors are not allowed to serve in the critical role of
disciplinarian to their children, and it is no small wonder that
children of divorce are out of control!! The children instead run free
throughout the streets of our
Nation, learning new antisocial behaviors and vices.
I could go on an on about the limitations of a "visitor" when it
comes to parental roles, and how the elimination of the critical role of
Father can only hope to result in societal unrest, upheaval and decay.
Suffice to say, it is self-evident that our children absolutely NEED
BOTH PARENTS in their lives if they are to be properly prepared for life
in the real world -- a world which is fast becoming "not a very pretty
place."
Empirical data being indisputable, follows are current statistics
from the Departments of Justice, Health and Human Services, the Centers
for Disease Control, the National Institutes of Health, the Census
Bureau and private studies, which clearly reflects the level of damage
that is occurring as a result of (Anti) Family Law in America:
Children that grow-up without a Father's influence:
are 33 times more likely to be seriously abused (so that they will
require medical attention).
are 73 times more likely to be killed as a result of abuse.
account for 71% of teenage pregnancies (Costing the US Taxpayers $40B
per year).
daughters are 2.1 times more likely to have children during there
teenage years than are children from intact families.
are 4.6 times more likely to commit suicide
are 6.6 times to become teenaged mothers
are 24.3 times more likely to run away
are 15.3 times more likely to have behavioral disorders
are 6.3 times more likely to be in a state-operated institution
are 10.8 times more likely to commit rape
are 6.6 times more likely to drop out of school
are 15.3 times more likely to end up in prison while a teenager
account for 90% of all homeless and runaway children
account for 70% of juveniles in state-operated institutions
account for 75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers
account for 85% of prison youths
account for 63% of youth suicides
account for 85% of all children the exhibit behavioral disorders
account for 80% of rapists motivated by displaced anger disorder
70% of confirmed cases of child abuse are committed by mothers.
65% of parental murders of children are committed by mothers.
Police
investigators and academics believe that 15% of the roughly 7,000 Sudden
Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) cases reported each year in the United
States are
really cases of suffocation, primarily committed by the mother. This
alone accounts for at least 1,000 homicides a year.
Criminologists point out many, if not most cases of SIDS, aren't
reported because autopsies are rarely able to distinguish between
suffocation and SIDS -- the actual number of murdered infants is
probably much higher.
37.9% of fathers have no access/visitation rights.
40% of mothers reported that they had interfered with the
non-custodial father's visitation on at least one occasion, to punish
the ex-spouse.
50% of mothers "see no value in the father`s continued contact with
his children.
11% of mothers value their husband's input when it comes to handling
problems with their kids. Teachers & doctors rated 45%, and close
friends & relatives rated 16%. The former spouse (mother) was the
greatest obstacle to
having more frequent contact with the children.
70% of fathers felt that they had too little time with their
children.
Very few children are satisfied with the amount of contact with their
fathers, after divorce. Mothers prevent visits to retaliate against
fathers for problems in their marital or post-marital relationship.
77% of non-custodial fathers are NOT able to "visit" their children,
as ordered by the court, as a result of "visitation interference"
perpetuated by the custodial parent.
Non-compliance with court ordered visitation is three times the
problem of non-compliance with court ordered child support and impacts
the children of divorce even more.
only 10% of all noncustodial fathers fit the "deadbeat dad" category
and 99% of those are "dead broke"
90% of the fathers with joint custody paid the support due.
Fathers with visitation rights pay 79.1%
44.5% of those with NO visitation rights still financially support
their children.
79.6% of custodial mothers receive child support award.
29.9% of custodial fathers receive a support award.
46.9% of Non-custodial mothers totally default on child support.
26.9% of Non-custodial fathers totally default on child support.
The ONLY viable solution to this societal crisis is an immediate end
to the "Failed Social Experiment" and the enforcement of the fundamental
liberty right to parent one's children absolutely free from unnecessary
governmental
interference -- unless/until it is clearly established that a parent is
unfit to parent.
Divorce does not make a parent a bad parent, and this must not be
allowed to continue to be the sole-basis upon which governmental
entities forcibly remove Fathers from the lives of their children.
"Presumption of Shared-Parenting for divorcing parents" must become
the law of the land!!
This one reform in Family Law will "on day-1 of implementation"
eliminate the vast majority of contentious divorces, and will in fact,
lead to a reduction in divorces as "Presumption of Shared-Parenting"
eliminates the many "financial incentives" which are so much a part of
the lure built-in to the vile system of the Divorce Industry.
Rome Burned!!!!
The United States of America will soon follow suit unless there is a
reversal in the Family-Destructive course that we are traveling, and
Lawyer-Legislators begin serving "We The People" rather than their Peers
and Masters within the American Bar Association, and the Secular,
Feminist, Homosexual, Lawyer and Medical lobbies of the Divorce
Industry.
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